well, since I’m bored.

Initial AttractionrnYour… bad grammar, correct word “you’re”. Gender: malernAge: 22 & 351/365thsrnHair: brown. Eyes: brownrnSkin tone: somewhat olive-ish. Height: 6’rnBody type: stick. Clothing style: it doesn’t often matter. comfort > style. That said, I wear black a lot. Best feature: hrm. anyone? Glasses? sigh. Facial hair? well, for those that remember…

You are attracted to… Gender: femalernAge: I’m a socially programmed creature, who usually finds people of the same age or slightly less attractive. That said, depends on the person. honestly, it does. Hair: longrnEyes: no preferencesrnSkin tone: no preferencesrnHeight: again with the social stigma, I find myself less attracted to women taller than me. Body type: honestly? it doesn’t often matter, though I find ‘thinner’ girls more attractive then ‘fatter’ ones, depending on your definition. Clothing style: not slutty ;)rnBest feature: hair and eyes, I notice. Glasses? heh. yes, I find glasses can be quite attractive. but it’s not that important. ^^rnFacial hair? um. I’d prefer no hairlip ;)

You are rarely/never attracted to… Age: let’s say those more than five years downwards, about five or six years upwarads. Depends, again, on the individual. Hair: short. weirdly coloured. Eyes: purple! arrgh! Skin tone: see below. Height: the really tall ones. Body type: ‘excessively large’rnClothing style: too much flesh. Body part: smoker’s fingers. ugh.

Deal BreakersrnDo you/Have you… Smoke? never. Drink? never. Do drugs? neverrnHave kids? nornHave any STDs? nornBeen divorced? nornHave a long list of sexual partners? nornEver cheated on someone? nornWhat’s your religion? agnostic. not really a religion.

Is it okay if they… Smoke? it would require them to be excessively perfect in every other way. normally no. Drink? if they like. Do drugs? no. Have kids? depends on the age, I’d say no in general. Have any STDs? preferably not ;)rnHave been divorced? ask again in ten yearsrnHave a long list of sexual partners? preferably notrnHave ever cheated on someone? highly depends on the person. in general, no. Follow a different religion? religion doesn’t bother me much, but let’s say, ‘no fundamentalists’rnDo you have any deal breakers not listed here? racist/extremist in either feminist/chauvanist senses.

Getting AlongrnDo you have any pets? a cat that is primarily mine. I share the others. Should they have any pets? i love cats. What are your hobbies? reading, writing, anime, role-playing, the internet, some gamesrnAre there any hobbies/activities you’d like to try? I wish I could speak/understand latin & japanese. otherwise, it depends on my mood. What kind of music do you like? heh. somewhat random ^^rnWhat kind of music do you dislike? rap. most hip-hop. most electronica. the non music shit, basicallly. What kind of movies do you like? i have a fondness for chick flicks. I like comedies (as long as they are reasonably intelligent), am a fairly big fan of animation in general (though it’s often a geeky “wow, look at that!” fandom), and I have a love of good storytelling. What kind of movies do you dislike? stupidity. films that lack coherence. Are you outgoing or shy? depends on the company. Are you more attracted to outgoing or shy people? that’s only one factor, i’d say. What’s your sense of humor like? highly ironic. fairly dark. Are there any causes (vegetarian/vegan, gay rights, abortion, war) you feel passionately about? egalitarianism. highly, highly in favour in all aspects. Are there any causes you’re strongly against? anything at odds with equality and freedom of expression.

DatingrnDo you prefer more traditional (dinner) or unconventional (laser tag)? I like tegan’s suggestion ^^rnHow would you charm someone? well… just look at me! How would you tell someone you like them? depends. I can be very circuitious, but also very forthright. How would you reject someone who asked you out? depends if I know them prior. If so, normally fairly gently/courteously. Otherwise, I’d probably react in an amused sense. What’s a surefire way to charm you? be intelligent, personable, and not false. What’s the best way for someone to tell you they like you? I like games. How would you prefer to be rejected? with civility and gentle candour. don’t beat around the subject, just be honest.

Getting SeriousrnAt what point do you consider the relationship serious and exclusive? would depend on level of mutual attraction. let’s say when it becomes more formalised. Are you materially high maintenance (want lots of gifts, etc.) no. Are you emotionally high maintenance (need lots of praise, reassurance, etc.)? no. Is it okay if they’re materially high maintenance? give and take, children. Is it okay if they’re emotionally high maintenance? as above. Do you lose your temper easily? I get irritated easily. I don’t blow up easily. Do you get jealous easily? no. Is it okay if they get jealous? depends why. How do you feel about public displays of affection? close, but not overly clingy.

In the BedroomrnDo you like your bedroom to be warm or cool? warm. Do you sleep with a lot of blankets or as little as possible? warm! Do you like to cuddle with someone when you sleep? heh. ask later,rnWhat position do you usually sleep in? head on the left, body diagonal. longer then the bed ;)rnDo you prefer total darkness or some light when you sleep? dark. Do you sleep better in a quiet room or with some background noise like music, TV, or a fan? silence. Are you a light sleeper or a heavy sleeper? how tired am I? Do you snore? apparently no. Is it okay if they snore? softly. softly. Do you toss and turn a lot? no. too many blankets ;)rnAre pets allowed on the bed? I don’t mind a cat. Do you keep other things in your bedroom (desk, computer, TV) or do you think it should just be for sleeping? yes, I do. in a sense, the bedroom is my total personal space.

Living TogetherrnAre you… Messy? not particularly. I get itchy if I leave the room untidy too long. A total slob? no. Organized? if you understand my methods of organisation. A neat freak? at times. Picky about decorating? only in terms of colour. Good about paying bills on time? yes.

Should they be… Messy? not too much. A total slob? no. Organized? punctuality! A neat freak? not too muchrnPicky about decorating? well. no chintz. ;)rnGood about paying bills on time? yes.

What are the things you absolutely must have in your home? the internet. a hell of a lot of books. a dvd player. What are the things (items or behaviors) you absolutely refuse to allow in your home? smoking. Does your stuff take up a lot of space? if it’s not all neatly lined up… Is it okay if their stuff does? as long as it doesn’t intrude on my spacernWhich of your possessions would you refuse to give up/sell/get rid of when moving in? laptop. music. dvds. books. Do you cook well? I make stuff up. it mostly turns out nice :)rnShould they be able to cook well? sure, why not. Will you wash dishes? already do. Will you vacuum and sweep floors? already do. Will you feed and clean up after pets? already do. Will you do laundry? already do. Will you dust? already do. Will you do yardwork (raking leaves, mowing the lawn, shoveling snow)? who wants a yard? Will you fix things around the house? if I can. Will you go grocery shopping? already do. Will you pick up after yourself? already do. Will you pick up after them? if the favour is returned. Are you a remote control hog? no. Are you a bathroom hog? no.

Long-term CompatibilityrnWhere do you want to live? it’s not too definite. open to discussion. Do you want children? not particularly, no. Do you want to get married? i have no convictions either way. What is your career, or what do you want it to be? honestly, I’m not sure. I wish I knew.

yeah. highly bored. not using many capitals. should be asleep.

rnAlcata’riel.

-Andiyar